com·plai·sance /kəmˈplesṇ(t)s, zṇ(t)s; ˌkɑmpleˈzæn(t)s, plə, ˈzɑn(t)s/
  彬彬有禮,慇懃,柔順
  Com·plai·sance n.  Disposition to please or oblige; obliging compliance with the wishes of others; a deportment indicative of a desire to please; courtesy; civility.
     These [ladies] . . . are by the just complaisance and gallantry of our nation the most powerful part of our people.   --Addison.
  They strive with their own hearts and keep them down,
  In complaisance to all the fools in town.   --Young.
  Syn: -- Civility; courtesy; urbanity; suavity; affability; good breeding.
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  complaisance
       n : a disposition or tendency to yield to the will of others
           [syn: compliance, compliancy, obligingness, deference]