不以物喜,不以己悲 [ㄅㄨˋ ㄧˇ ㄨˋ ㄒㄧˇ , ㄅㄨˋ ㄧˇ ㄐㄧˇ ㄅㄟ; bu4 yi3 wu4 xi3 , bu4 yi3 ji3 bei1] not to become attached to material things, not to pity oneself ◄ ►