吃軟不吃硬 [ㄔ ㄖㄨㄢˇ ㄅㄨˋ ㄔ ㄧㄥˋ; chi1 ruan3 bu4 chi1 ying4] lit. eats soft food, but refuses hard food (idiom) amenable to coaxing but not coercion ◄ ►