嚴以責己寬以待人 [ㄧㄢˊ ㄧˇ ㄗㄜˊ ㄐㄧˇ ㄎㄨㄢ ㄧˇ ㄉㄞˋ ㄖㄣˊ; yan2 yi3 ze2 ji3 kuan1 yi3 dai4 ren2] to be severe with oneself and lenient with others (idiom) ◄ ►