敬酒不吃吃罰酒 [ㄐㄧㄥˋ ㄐㄧㄡˇ ㄅㄨˋ ㄔ ㄔ ㄈㄚˊ ㄐㄧㄡˇ; jing4 jiu3 bu4 chi1 chi1 fa2 jiu3] to refuse a toast only to be forced to drink a forfeit fig. to hesitate to do sth until forced to do even more ◄ ►