薄養厚葬 [ㄅㄛˊ ㄧㄤˇ ㄏㄡˋ ㄗㄤˋ; bo2 yang3 hou4 zang4] to neglect one's parents but give them a rich funeral hypocrisy in arranging a lavish funeral after treating one's parents meanly ◄ ►