鼓盆之戚 [ㄍㄨˇ ㄆㄣˊ ㄓ ㄑㄧ; gu3 pen2 zhi1 qi1] drumming on a bowl in grief (idiom, refers to Zhuangzi 莊子 grieving for his lost wife) fig. grief for a lost wife ◄ ►